There are 2 big things I have to deal with on a daily basis that drive me absolutely insane.
1. People who ask a question and when I give an answer they drift off into no mans land.
I know my answers can be long at times, but I am a nervous talker, so just cut me off and say,"Hey, I got it". The best is when someone comes back and asks me the same question that I have already replied to.
2. When I am asked to figure out a problem, and I do, my answer gets denied. I guess that just qualifies as doubt.
I never lie to get out of a situation and when I come to you with an answer it is almost always the solution. I know people don't like the answer they get sometimes, but it is the truth.
This mostly pertains to my career, and in life with people in general. I am sure there have been times I was that guy who was ignoring someone talking, but it is usually not after I have asked the question. So what is the right thing to do when this happens to me? Should I just hang up, walk away?
When someone doubts me I just don't get it. It's like knowing nothing at all about Plumbing, but telling the Plumber he is who about the problem you are having. Even after he has proven to you exactly what the problem is. Maybe it's a lack of faith or trust, but whatever it is, it drives me nuts.
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